“Over commitment will lead to a lack of commitment! Know the difference between what you are called to, not what you are pulled to…”
No one enters youth ministry ever expecting to burnout, breakdown, or lose their passion. However, in my years of youth ministry I have heard too many stories of great youth workers who left ministry all together because of burnout…
There are many reasons why you and I could burnout, but it usually starts when we try to do everything for everyone with only our strength. Before we know it, we are working unhealthy hours, our walk with God is shallow, and our family are getting the left overs. But, how can we avoid this? Here’s a starting place:
Know the difference between what you are called to, not what you are pulled to.
(I saw this quote a few weeks ago. I wish I could tell you who said it, but I have no idea. However, it stuck in my brain so much that I have not been able to get away from it).
The bottom line is this: When you and I can have a healthy walk with God, we will hear His voice and He will lead us to what we are called to. From here we can:
- Discern what God is calling us to do
- Know the difference between a good opportunity and a God opportunity
- Have the confidence to say “no” to the things that we are pulled to
- Have the clarity to be able to communicate our vision to others
- Have the time to spend with God and our families
- Find peace in God’s plans even when storms rage around us.
You see, there are a number of reasons for burnout in youth ministry, but personally, I believe it begins with an unhealthy expectation that we say “yes” to everything, (and then in our own strength, try to do everything). Instead, we should begin with a strong relationship with God that continuously seeks His purpose and vision.
There are many other ways in which you and I can be pulled into burnout, but this is what I have observed in the last few years.
How are you avoiding burnout? Do you have time to hear God’s voice in your life? Do you know what you are called to for the long and short haul?